<section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="88405" style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 1em; padding-left: 1em; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); line-height: 1.8;" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); line-height: 1.8; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也許人生的常態(tài)就是孤獨，但希望天亮后，孤獨的人能有人陪伴，不孤獨的人能珍惜眼前人。</span></span></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(251, 251, 251); word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify; font-size: 17px;">因為工作原因，有段時間，我的微信加了3000個陌生好友，但基本都沒聊過天。</span><br></h3><section style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(251, 251, 251); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">前</span><span style="text-align: justify;">兩天突然有個女孩發(fā)信息給我：在嗎？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;"></span><span style="text-align: justify;">本著服務(wù)客戶的理念，我開始跟她溝通，結(jié)果這一溝通，就從中午一點聊到了下午五點，期間我們還語音通話了一個多小時。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">我</span><span style="text-align: justify;">問姑娘：為什么要找我這個陌生人聊這么久呢？</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">姑娘說：就是因為陌生，才能聊這么久啊。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;"><br></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">我</span><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">瞬間無語凝噎，腦海中不由蹦出一句話：我們都太孤獨了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">前陣子有個視頻刷爆了網(wǎng)絡(luò)。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">華</span><span style="text-align: justify;">為邀請一群普通人做了一場實驗性測試。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">測</span><span style="text-align: justify;">試員讓受訪者在不看手機的情況下猜猜自己手機上有多少聯(lián)系人，之后讓他們一個個刪除不會主動聯(lián)系的人，接著是刪掉工作應(yīng)酬需要的人，到最后剩下能說真心話的人。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">通</span><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">訊錄從最開始的1000多人，到最后僅剩3個人，這種變化讓所有人都沉默了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">之</span><span style="text-align: justify;">后，測試員又讓受訪者打電話給很久沒聯(lián)系的朋友。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">其</span><span style="text-align: justify;">中有一個受訪者打電話給朋友，對方說了兩句，就掛了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">看</span><span style="text-align: justify;">著他一個人坐在那里，孤獨的像一只被遺棄的小狗，內(nèi)心不由跟著一陣顫抖。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">不知道從什么時候開始，兩個無話不說的人變成了無話可說。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">翻</span><span style="text-align: justify;">開通訊錄，上面滿滿的人名，卻找不到一個可以分享此刻心情的人。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們看似交友廣泛，從天南到地北，從江湖到廟堂，好像沒有一個我們不認識的，但真正交心的寥寥無幾，甚至連一個都沒有。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">去</span><span style="text-align: justify;">年回家和幾個朋友聚了一下，談到高中一個同學(xué)結(jié)婚了的時候，老張明顯愣了下。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">“什么時候結(jié)的？”</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="text-align: justify;">就年初啊，聽說新娘很漂亮?！?lt;/span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">老</span><span style="text-align: justify;">張囁嚅了下嘴，喃喃道：“這小子，當(dāng)初明明說好了，結(jié)婚一定要叫我的?！?lt;/span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">記得有一期《康熙來了》邀請了謝娜。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">節(jié)目中，謝娜問了小S一句話：什么時候你感覺離朋友最遠？</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">小S說：</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)我看到她穿著我沒見過的衣服，在沒有我的地方拍了照片，標注的是我不知道的事，評論的是我不認識的人的時候。</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;"><br></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">謝</span><span style="text-align: justify;">娜搖了搖頭回道：</span><br></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">都不是，是照片里她周圍的人你都認識，但是你卻從未知道她們做了這件事。</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">什么是孤獨呢？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">大</span><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">概就是某天你突然回頭，發(fā)現(xiàn)原本站在你身邊的人不見了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">你</span><span style="text-align: justify;">站在原地張望，這才發(fā)現(xiàn)你們已經(jīng)走在不同的兩條道上了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">你張開嘴想喊，卻不知道要說些什么。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">最</span><span style="text-align: justify;">后只能無奈嘆息，一個人繼續(xù)往前走。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">在抖音看過一個視頻，采訪者問路人小哥：“你覺得自己能跟最好的朋友借到多少錢呢？”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">小哥斟酌了下，自信說道：“應(yīng)該能借到5萬吧?！?lt;/h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">于是采訪者讓路人當(dāng)場打電話跟朋友借錢。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">電話接通后，對方很熱情地攀談著。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">直到小哥說到借錢這事的時候，那邊明顯遲疑了一下。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">接著各種借口新鮮出爐，說錢沒在銀行卡上，說沒什么現(xiàn)金。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">小哥拿著手機，看著采訪者，微張著嘴唇，眼里滿是張皇失措，那個表情現(xiàn)在還印在我腦海里。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上有個話題：你最孤獨的時刻是什么？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">底下有很多扎心的評論。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">其中一條是知友趙咸魚的：突然覺得很多原本親密無間的伙伴并沒有把我當(dāng)朋友。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我想，那一刻大概是小哥人生中最孤獨的一次了。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">沒有一點點防備，就這樣被最好的朋友“背叛”了。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">幾年前看過一部電影——《第六感》。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">8歲的小男孩科爾擁有一種超凡的能力，能看透世界，與鬼魂交流。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">這種能力即使對一個心智成熟的成年人來說，都是一種不可思議，難以接受的能力，何況是一個小孩。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">所以當(dāng)身邊不時出現(xiàn)一個個保留著恐怖死狀的鬼魂時，科爾感到極度害怕。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">他把這件事告訴母親，但母親并不相信他，反而認為是他在惡作劇。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">久而久之，他學(xué)會了獨立思考，獨立面對。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">雖然每當(dāng)夜深人靜，一個人的時候，他還是會被嚇得躲在被子里，瑟瑟發(fā)抖。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">這樣的情況持續(xù)了很久，直到心理醫(yī)生麥克的出現(xiàn)，在他的幫助下，科爾才慢慢敞開胸懷，得到救贖。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">當(dāng)初看這部電影的時候，以為是驚悚片，但是看完卻幾度飆淚。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">電影里，科爾告訴麥克醫(yī)生自己能看到鬼魂時，醫(yī)生也是不相信的，甚至認為他是在愚弄自己。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">直到科爾含著眼淚說道：“你如果不相信我的話，你怎么能夠幫我？”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">麥克醫(yī)生才決定相信科爾。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">其實成年人的生活何嘗不是這樣呢？</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">記得去年一個得了抑郁癥的朋友找我聊天，說她時不時有自殺的沖動。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我安慰她說，別亂想，多出去走走，放松放松。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">她搖了搖頭說，沒用的，你沒經(jīng)歷過，不知道抑郁癥的痛苦。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我張了張嘴，不知道該說些什么。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有時候，孤獨就是“我什么都告訴你了，但你不是不信，就是不懂。”</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">久而久之，我們就學(xué)會了自己舔舐傷口，再也不會將心里話告訴別人。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">像科爾一樣，一個人獨立面對，一個人深夜躲在被子里偷哭。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">一個人感到孤獨的原因可能有千種萬種，但結(jié)果往往只有一個，讓人感到難受。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">所以很多人愿意花大把的時間去刷抖音，玩吃雞。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我想，大部分都是為了逃避現(xiàn)實，逃避孤獨吧。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">但孤獨是無法逃避的，我們只能去面對。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">就像加西亞·馬爾克斯在《百年孤獨》中說的：</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“生命從來不曾離開過孤獨而獨立存在，無論是我們出生、我們成長、我們相愛、還是我們成功失敗，直到最后的最后，孤獨猶如影子一樣存在于生命的一隅?！?lt;/span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們無法躲避孤獨，只能選擇接受孤獨，改變孤獨。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">假使你可以一個人在孤獨中找到屬于自己的出路，那無疑是一件好事。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但要是你無法一個人在孤獨中行走，那不妨多花點時間，經(jīng)營下朋友圈，找到一個值得珍惜的人，然后一起前行。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">《喜劇之王》里，柳飄飄曾指著黑漆漆的夜空對尹天仇說：“前面漆黑一片，什么也看不到。”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">尹天仇想了想說：“也不是，天亮后會很美的?！?lt;/span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">也許人生的常態(tài)就是孤獨，但希望天亮后，孤獨的人能有人陪伴，不孤獨的人能珍惜眼前人。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-id="3126" data-tools="135編輯器" data-custom="rgb(117, 117, 118)" data-color="rgb(117, 117, 118)" style="max-width: 100%; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; border-width: initial; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 15px; max-width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); color: inherit; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="80%" style="margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; width: 510.208px; line-height: 1.5em; border-bottom: 5px solid rgb(117, 117, 118); border-top-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-right-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-left-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); font-size: 14px; font-weight: inherit; text-align: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); color: inherit; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">茲心批注：</span></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; padding: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">（1）英國著名哲學(xué)家培根曾說：“孤獨是美，沉默是金——在生命的進程中，你要耐得住寂寞；有人說，凄涼是詩，悲壯是歌——在生命的現(xiàn)實中，你要經(jīng)得起挫折。”是啊，孤獨是人生的常態(tài)，是生命的常態(tài)，永遠不要逃避，唯有接受孤獨，學(xué)會和自己相處，我們才能找到自己。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">（2）這紅塵萬丈，誰不孤獨！作為生命個體，孤獨與生俱來，重要的是，我們要在孤獨里成長，在孤獨中豐盛自己，在孤獨中給自己增值，把孤獨當(dāng)作一場修行。心若安定，孤獨也是一種朝圣與加冕。</span></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section>